Joseph Yobo’s in laws are extremely angry with him because he is yet to marry their daughter traditionally

YOBO & WIFE

YOBO & WIFE

 

 

Joseph Yobo’s in laws are extremely angry with him because he is yet to marry their daughter traditionally, according to Yes Magazine.

Yobo’s wife, Adaeze, is from Iru-Owelle Village in Awka Etiti, Idemili South  local government area of Anambra State. According to one of them who  asked not to be mentioned yet, their anger with the soccer star stems  from the fact that he’s yet to marry their daughter traditionally.

“Yobo has not done Adaeze’s Igba Nkwu and that’s why we are not happy with  him. You are a Yoruba girl, but you can go and ask your publisher, Azuh  Arinze. He knows what Igba Nkwu means in Igboland, and he also knows  that without it, no man can be said to have truly and fully married a  woman.

“We love Yobo as a footballer. We are also happy to have  him as our in-law, but our tradition must be followed and respected.  Remember Ojukwu and Bianca? In spite of their having a high society  wedding in Abuja and all that, when the time came, Ojukwu still had to  return to Ngwo (in Enugu) to marry Bianca traditionally because it is  very, very important. So, you can tell Yobo that we said his case cannot be any different. He must marry our daughter traditionally. Simple”.

Igba Nkwu, indeed, is very important in Igbo land. Besides uniting the two  families and formalizing the relationship traditionally, it’s also an  avenue for the couple to exchange drinks publicly and announce to the  whole world that they are now one. The format is usually to hand over to the bride a glass filled with Nkwu Enu (up wine), and amidst dancing  around the arena; accompanied by her friends, she locates the groom,  hands over the drink to him, he drinks and follows her to her parents.  Both will now kneel and be prayed for, with merriment following later.

Adaeze’s father is the grandson of the GMO boss, Chief J.O. Igwe. GMO used to be into serious business and was one of the first Igbo companies, as far  back as 1982, to donate N2million to a cause. This was when Dollar  exchanged one for about N80. “GMO was the Dangote of that time in the  East. The man was a member of People’s Club, the biggest social club,  East of the Niger, at the time. Oliver de Coque and Osita Osadebe sang  his praise in their albums”.

Sources close to Yobo told us that he was ready and willing to do the Igba Nkwu but for kidnapping which was  rampant in Anambra State then. “That was what scared him away. Yobo is a big boy. I mean, we all saw how big his white weeding was, in spite of  the fact that he didn’t announce it to the whole world then”.

Yobo, it would be recalled, had his church wedding in Jos, Plateau State in  2008. Currently blessed with a child, YES International! investigation  revealed that he had met with Adaeze’s father, Mr. Ikechukwu Igwe, for  some form of introduction in Lagos and not Igba Nkwu. When we contacted  Mr. Igwe, on Thursday, February 13, 2014, he maintained that he doesn’t  have any issue with his daughter and her husband.

“I don’t have  any problem with them at all and it’s not true that I’m not happy with  them over anything”. On their inability to perform the Igba Nkwu  ceremonies yet, he said he was happy with Adaeze as his daughter and  Yobo as his son in-law and that’s what’s important. “Don’t listen to  whoever is telling you anything on the contrary”. But still seething  with rage, one of the in-laws said: “Ask Yobo whether he knows  where Iru-Owelle is. Ask him also whether he has been to Iru-Owelle. Our people don’t do traditional marriages in Lagos, so whatever they claim  to have done there doesn’t concern us. If he wants to marry our  daughter, he should come to our village”.

Source: Gossip Nigeria

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Moses M'Bowe, is the Chief International Correspondent, For New Africa Business News And New Africa Daily News.

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